2008年6月23日 星期一

只有一隻指環的婚禮

(以下內容涉及電影【戒,情人】的情節,敬請留意。)


在祈櫻子那邊,讀了一篇關於婚姻的網誌,然後再看【戒,情人(Closing the Ring),有點感觸。


對很多人來說,婚姻是一種承諾;但換個角度看,婚姻何嘗不是一種枷鎖?世上沒有免費午餐,要得到別人的承諾,就要付出若干代價。人生有不同的階段,在某個階段,你可能覺得付出的物有所值;但隨著歲月流逝,人的見識增長了,你還會甘心繼續付出嗎?


在【戒,情人】這齣電影中,有一幕特別教栗印象深刻。男主角要上戰場,臨行前與女主角舉行秘密婚禮 (女主角的家人反對)。在婚禮上,沒有交換指環這個甜蜜的場面,只看見女主角把一隻指環放在男主角的手中,要他帶著遠赴戰場。想不到這隻指環雖然不在女主角身邊,卻仍然綁著她的心整整五十年。指環雖輕,但背後那份承諾的重量,卻壓得她很累……



電影公司標榜這是一齣史詩式電影,但在如詩般的浪漫背後,卻是無比的沉重。



電影預告片


 


動聽的片尾曲:Lost Without Your Love - Amy Pearson 


 


I count the days now where apart,
and each hangs heavy on my heart,
I
know it has to be this way,
tomorrow happens gone away,

and every pathway leads to you,
my heart has told me what to do,
you give me strength to carry on,
but every footstep feels so wrong,

(chorus)
you know that
I'm
lost without you,
stumbling in the dark,
you know that
I'
m lost without you,
lost without your love,
I'
m lost without you,
I
don't no where to turn,
and here in the dark
I'
m burning,
lost without your love,

(verse 2)
I
dream this carosel will stop,
and somehow
I
turn back the clocks,
to let him fill my heart again,
to let him kiss away this pain,

(chorus)
you know that
I'
m lost without you,
stumbling in the dark,
you know that
I'
m lost without you,
lost without your love,
I'
m lost without you,
and
I
don't no where to turn,
and here in the dark
I'
m burning,
lost without your love,

(verse 3)
a house is not a home,
and the heart can never fly,
and if
I
can only burn,
all the tears
I
couldn't cry,

(chorus)
you know
I
'd be lost without you,
stumbling in the dark,
you know
I
'd be lost without you,
lost without your love,
I'
m lost without you,
I
have no where to turn,
and here in the dark
I'
m burning,
I'm lost, I'
m lost without your love,
oah, woah,
I'
m lost without you,
I'
m lost without you,
I'
m lost without you,
oah without your love

4 則留言:

  1. 個男仔一路沒有回來?
    [版主回覆06/24/2008 06:58:00]施裴:是啊,還要臨行前跟好朋友說,萬一有甚麼不測,請他「照顧」自己的老婆

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  2. 花花世界﹐能守一生的承諾﹐真不簡單。
    也許是通脹的關係吧﹐許多東西都在慢慢貶值﹐承諾﹐親情﹐友誼﹐也難逃次劫。所以﹐如何把自己的價值提昇﹐是現在非常重要的課題。
    不管如何﹐我相信美好的事。
     

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  3. 栗子妹、種子大哥:要守一生的承諾其實好簡單,那就是只要“真心去愛” ....

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  4. 但隨著歲月流逝,人的見識增長了,你還會甘心繼續付出嗎?
    不太想, 已經改變了的思維和性格...真的會有異心的.

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