早幾天心血來潮,清點手機內的短訊,發現寄給過氣心上人的,共十條之多。
其實十條短訊不過五元,算起來不算甚麼,但當時卻覺得很不值。五元可以由北角坐一趟渡輪回觀塘呢!竟然胡里胡塗地花在無謂的事情上,真是氣人。
回想起來,發短訊時並不覺得不妥,因為傻栗當時想,那時「愛」的表現。哈,真是可笑的誤會!沒有回應的短訊,算是哪門子的愛呢?
一直以為自己很超然,在愛情路上能做到「只管付出,不問收穫」,那真是癡栗說夢。有這樣的錯覺,是因為未遇過有回應的愛情吧?不過以後我再也不會做蠢事的了,因為「經一事,長一智」嘛!
I clear my call and text logs once every few weeks. You are like LC, who probably never delete anything...
回覆刪除[版主回覆04/28/2009 07:52:00]Teacher: But I think it's good to keep things as long as you can.
That's what she thinks. She got that from her dad, I think.
回覆刪除示愛也不是什麼蠢事啦,不做永遠不知結果。
回覆刪除[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:42:00]哈哈,也是。不過我那些短訊都不算甚麼示愛啦!所以才覺得浪費。
哦, 栗子妹怎麼會以 "水水" 來算自己對對方的關心呢? ~~
回覆刪除與其不發短訊, 內心備感 "囉囉攣", 還不如不求回應, 大大方方傳遞自己的思想 ~~
[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:41:00]暖暖請別氣,是那人先跟我根根計較的
第二句說的對,我好怕把心事埋藏心底(除非形勢所逼),說了出來,無論成與敗,都算是放下心頭大石。
細心想, 沒有回應的短信, 也是一種回應.
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愛情是要互動的, it takes 2 to tango.
[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:40:00]雲兒果然是智者,那個回應大概就是「你別再煩我了」,可惜栗妹後知後覺,現在才夢醒。
咁寫情信喺成本上嚟講應該比較抵D.
回覆刪除[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:39:00]BS2: 都唔係架,諗寫乜好傷神呢!(其實講電話都係,同男友講到就快冇嘢講 )
可愛的栗妹!年輕人,總要有幾分儍氣。
回覆刪除[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:38:00]南爾:做的時候可能覺得自己可愛,不過事後回望,只覺得自己愚不可及~~~
栗妹, 不用覺得自己傻, 要慶幸自己曾有勇氣做過.
回覆刪除最起碼, 自己曾為一個人傾心過, 也努力過,
即使最後沒結果 (其實也算是一個結果) , 此是天意.
自己可以放下, 重新上路.
[版主回覆04/28/2009 21:58:00]謝謝雲兒開解!事已至此,很難不罵自己蠢呢!不過罵過了,我會懂得重新上路的啦!
(現在就關機,打電話給男友 )
咁唔知blog主而家變成o左一粒成熟o既栗子未呢?
回覆刪除[版主回覆05/04/2009 10:32:00]井兄:都應該夠熟可以上枱架啦
栗妹拍拖了, 恭喜恭喜 !
回覆刪除[版主回覆05/04/2009 10:34:00]雲兒:多謝多謝 !若能順利走到終點,再請各位喝杯茶
loving a person who doesn't love you or with no feedback is indeed silly. but lots of people have had this stupid experience when they were young. only young people can afford with such silly things.
回覆刪除how's your new bf??
[版主回覆05/04/2009 10:35:00]Simply Natural: 可惜我做這件蠢事時,已經幾十歲人,所以蠢上加蠢
佢呀,尋晚夜船返香港,然後今朝八時要上班。我就繼續放假
栗子妹:人人都說經一事長一智,無奈這個智很多時候都會被情感所蒙蔽,到了重要關頭還是長不起智哩
回覆刪除[版主回覆05/04/2009 10:37:00]慧行先生說得對,人就是過不了感情一關,為情生為情死
did you travel to China during this holiday with your bf?
回覆刪除[版主回覆05/04/2009 16:28:00]Yes, Simply Natural. I've just finished my entries about this trip.