雖然【熟女寵愛】(Cheri) 的調子十分輕快，但當中的忘年戀，令栗覺得很唏噓。
一位風華正茂的女士，在情場打滾多年，身經百戰，本該擁有金鋼不壞之身，奈何不慎戀上浮誇的小伙子，最終讓愛情傷個體無完膚。
小伙子對女士的迷戀，栗子妹起初覺得很噁心，但看下去又頗同情他的處境。少年十五二十時，性與愛既是禁忌也是慾望，碰巧他生長在品流複雜的家庭，沒有家長正確指引，沉淪慾海似是在所難免。待他體會到何謂真愛時，選擇了自殺之途，可算是對女士表達了自己的「忠貞」？
有說愛情無分年齡國籍膚色，在栗看來實屬謊言。不錯，有人可以衝破重重障礙，走在一起，但成功者到底有多少？談情說愛，還是找匹配的好。
我贊成「 談情說愛，還是找匹配的好」﹗我一開始看時就已猜到他們一定不能有好結果，年齡已經是一大問題，熱愛過後一切歸於平淡......問題接踵而來，畢竟相差太遠﹗做人實際點較好﹗
回覆刪除[版主回覆02/06/2010 07:22:00]是呢，熱愛過後的平淡，會令人蠢蠢欲動，做出越軌之事！ 若然背景接近一些，維繫感情會較容易吧？
not just age, nationality and race, but educational level is just as important
回覆刪除[版主回覆02/06/2010 07:24:00]Right, Teacher. I remember I read about a family tragedy in the newspaper. The husband was a construction worker while the wife was a teacher.
同意中國古訓，門當戶對，不止說門戶之見，其實大有智慧，是經驗累積的睿哲。
回覆刪除就說兩口子住不同區，每次夜歸送來送去就夠煩的了...如果是年青人沒有車子，坐車來坐車去，也煩，不送的話又少了情趣...唉...
[版主回覆02/06/2010 07:26:00]送來送去其實是小問題，結婚後沒能力擁有自己的家，要跟父母同住，麻煩更多呢...
（栗妹，我的不起心肝買歐洲電影節票，不能與你玩碰面遊戲呢。不如在香港國際電影節玩吧） 小時候不明世情，會反對門當戶對之說，但現在又有點明白為何要這樣。怪不得可歌可泣的愛情故事多數是講門不當戶不對的戀人故事，現實中沒有這種浪漫，唯有看小說幻想吧。
回覆刪除[版主回覆02/06/2010 07:30:00](OKOK ，希望大家會選中相同的電影 )
以前好喜歡看一對男女衝破重重障礙，最終結成佳偶的故事，不過長大了，知道世事沒那麼完美，現在都不看了...
門當戶對 is in Western sociology study as well. There are blue blood, upper upper class like the Kennedy and Rockefeller. Chinese are great observer but they don't care much about knowing why. I think most Chinese observation in over 4000 years are statically correct. They never explained why and the observation just became rules to be follow without question.
回覆刪除[版主回覆02/06/2010 07:33:00]Good observation! I guess it's because the authorities don't encourage people to think and they just make people accept what they say.
Speaking of which, there was a film called Love Story, starring a very young and handsome Ryan O'Neal, and Ali MacGraw. It's almost 40 years old now. You may want to check that out.
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Of course, everything worked in those days.
[版主回覆02/06/2010 10:12:00]I read the book, Teacher. My tutor asked me to compare the book with the Bridges of Madison County. Of course I love the latter much more.
我想「若然背景接近一些，維繫感情會較容易」這事實總比較易的，因為思想價值觀相近。不過，其實還有佷多因素的，愛情究竟是什麼一回事﹖不是口講是從彼此生活中體驗出來的。
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